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THE GIRL FACTOR.
Can female therapists play ball in men's sports?

by Gin Phillips

In April 2006, New York Mets announcer Keith Hernandez noticed Kelly Calabrese in the San Diego Padres dugout. The long hair threw him off—he huffed and puffed about the idea of a girl in the dugout. “Who is the girl in the dugout, with the long hair?” Hernandez said on air. “You have got to be kidding me. Only player personnel in the dugout.”

The girl happened to be the first full-time female massage therapist hired by a Major League Baseball team. Once Hernandez found out her position, he threw in an addendum to his first remarks.

“I won’t say women belong in the kitchen, but they don’t belong in the dugout,” he said.

This did not go over well. Hernandez’s comments set off a firestorm of criticism, and he later publicly apologized. The Padres’ leadership and players weighed in, arguing that gender was irrelevant when it came to the contribution Calabrese made to team training and performance. Calabrese herself was shocked when she realized she was suddenly the focus of national attention.

“It was my third year being fulltime, so I don’t know why he just noticed me then,” Calabrese says. “My players were just blown away. They were saying if we don’t care and the manager doesn’t care, why should someone on the outside care? Nobody looks at me as a girl in there.”

It took Calabrese years to get to the dugout. She started working with Cleveland Indians players in 1995, and when those players were traded to the Atlanta Braves, they asked her if she’d still work on them during spring training. That led to connections to other Braves players, including first baseman Ryan Klesko. Klesko had some of the best years of his career in the late ’90s, and when he was traded to the Padres, he asked Calabrese to come with him to California.

“He said, ‘I know you have a huge client list, but I really need you to come with me,’” Calabrese recalls. “Ryan assured me he’d help me get on board here.”

She knew her goal was to work full-time for a team, and so far she’d only been working on individual players. It had been a long and varied line—whenever a team came in to play the Indians, they’d call Calabrese in to work on their players— but she hadn’t been able to become part of the team. Klesko was offering her a shot at that, although it wasn’t even close to a sure thing.

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